MEMB. III.
Charity composed of all three Kinds, Pleasant, Profitable, Honest.
Besides this love that comes from profit, pleasant, honest (for one good
turn asks another in equity), that which proceeds from the law of nature,
or from discipline and philosophy, there is yet another love compounded of
all these three, which is charity, and includes piety, dilection,
benevolence, friendship, even all those virtuous habits; for love is the
circle equant of all other affections, of which Aristotle dilates at large
in his Ethics, and is commanded by God, which no man can well perform, but
he that is a Christian, and a true regenerate man; this is,[4586]To love
God above all, and our neighbour as ourself; for this love is lychnus
accendens et accensus, a communicating light, apt to illuminate itself as
well as others. All other objects are fair, and very beautiful, I confess;
kindred, alliance, friendship, the love that we owe to our country, nature,
wealth, pleasure, honour, and such moral respects, &c., of which read
[4587]copious Aristotle in his morals; a man is beloved of a man, in that
he is a man; but all these are far more eminent and great, when they shall
proceed from a sanctified spirit, that hath a true touch of religion, and a
reference to God. Nature binds all creatures to love their young ones; a
hen to preserve her brood will run upon a lion, a hind will fight with a
bull, a sow with a bear, a silly sheep with a fox. So the same nature
urgeth a man to love his parents, ([4588]dii me pater omnes oderint, ni
te magis quam oculos amem meos!) and this love cannot be dissolved, as
Tully holds, [4589]without detestable offence: but much more God's
commandment, which enjoins a filial love, and an obedience in this kind.
[4590]The love of brethren is great, and like an arch of stones, where if
one be displaced, all comes down, no love so forcible and strong, honest,
to the combination of which, nature, fortune, virtue, happily concur; yet
this love comes short of it. [4591]Dulce et decorum pro patria mori,
[4592]it cannot be expressed, what a deal of charity that one name of
country contains. Amor laudis et patriae pro stipendio est; the Decii did
se devovere, Horatii, Curii, Scaevola, Regulus, Codrus, sacrifice
themselves for their country's peace and good.
[4593]Una dies Fabios ad bellum miserat omnes,
Ad bellum missos perdidit una dies.
One day the Fabii stoutly warred,
One day the Fabii were destroyed.
Fifty thousand Englishmen lost their lives willingly near Battle Abbey, in
defence of their country. [4594]P. Aemilius l. 6. speaks of six senators
of Calais, that came with halters in their hands to the king of England, to
die for the rest. This love makes so many writers take such pains, so many
historiographers, physicians, &c., or at least, as they pretend, for common
safety, and their country's benefit. [4595]Sanctum nomen amiciticae,
sociorum communio sacra; friendship is a holy name, and a sacred communion
of friends. [4596]As the sun is in the firmament, so is friendship in the
world, a most divine and heavenly band. As nuptial love makes, this
perfects mankind, and is to be preferred (if you will stand to the judgment
of [4597]Cornelius Nepos) before affinity or consanguinity; plus in
amiciticia valet similitudo morum, quam affinitas, &c., the cords of love
bind faster than any other wreath whatsoever. Take this away, and take all
pleasure, joy, comfort, happiness, and true content out of the world; 'tis
the greatest tie, the surest indenture, strongest band, and, as our modern
Maro decides it, is much to be preferred before the rest.
[4598]Hard is the doubt, and difficult to deem,
When all three kinds of love together meet;
And do dispart the heart with power extreme,
Whether shall weigh the balance down; to wit,
The dear affection unto kindred sweet,
Or raging fire of love to women kind,
Or zeal of friends, combin'd by virtues meet;
But of them all the band of virtuous mind,
Methinks the gentle heart should most assured bind.
For natural affection soon doth cease,
And quenched is with Cupid's greater flame;
But faithful friendship doth them both suppress,
And them with mastering discipline doth tame,
Through thoughts aspiring to eternal fame.
For as the soul doth rule the earthly mass,
And all the service of the body frame,
So love of soul doth love of body pass,
No less than perfect gold surmounts the meanest brass.
[4599]A faithful friend is better than [4600]gold, a medicine of misery,
[4601]an only possession; yet this love of friends, nuptial, heroical,
profitable, pleasant, honest, all three loves put together, are little
worth, if they proceed not from a true Christian illuminated soul, if it be
not done in ordine ad Deum for God's sake. Though I had the gift of
prophecy, spake with tongues of men and angels, though I feed the poor with
all my goods, give my body to be burned, and have not this love, it
profiteth me nothing, 1 Cor. xiii. 1, 3. 'tis splendidum peccatum,
without charity. This is an all-apprehending love, a deifying love, a
refined, pure, divine love, the quintessence of all love, the true
philosopher's stone, Non potest enim, as [4602]Austin infers, veraciter
amicus esse hominis, nisi fuerit ipsius primitus veritatis, He is no true
friend that loves not God's truth. And therefore this is true love indeed,
the cause of all good to mortal men, that reconciles all creatures, and
glues them together in perpetual amity and firm league; and can no more
abide bitterness, hate, malice, than fair and foul weather, light and
darkness, sterility and plenty may be together; as the sun in the firmament
(I say), so is love in the world; and for this cause 'tis love without an
addition, love κατ' ξοχν, love of God, and love of men. [4603]The love of God
begets the love of man; and by this love of our neighbour, the love of God
is nourished and increased. By this happy union of love, [4604]all
well-governed families and cities are combined, the heavens annexed, and
divine souls complicated, the world itself composed, and all that is in it
conjoined in God, and reduced to one. [4605]This love causeth true and
absolute virtues, the life, spirit, and root of every virtuous action, it
finisheth prosperity, easeth adversity, corrects all natural encumbrances,
inconveniences, sustained by faith and hope, which with this our love make
an indissoluble twist, a Gordian knot, an equilateral triangle, and yet the
greatest of them is love, 1 Cor. xiii. 13, [4606]which inflames our
souls with a divine heat, and being so inflamed, purged, and so purgeth,
elevates to God, makes an atonement, and reconciles us unto him. [4607]
That other love infects the soul of man, this cleanseth; that depresses,
this rears; that causeth cares and troubles, this quietness of mind; this
informs, that deforms our life; that leads to repentance, this to heaven.
For if once we be truly linked and touched with this charity, we shall love
God above all, our neighbour as ourself, as we are enjoined, Mark xii. 31.
Matt. xix. 19. perform those duties and exercises, even all the operations
of a good Christian.
This love suffereth long, it is bountiful, envieth not, boasteth not
itself, is not puffed up, it deceiveth not, it seeketh not his own things,
is not provoked to anger, it thinketh not evil, it rejoiceth not in
iniquity, but in truth. It suffereth all things, believeth all things,
hopeth all things, 1 Cor. xiii. 4, 5, 6, 7; it covereth all trespasses,
Prov, x. 12; a multitude of sins, 1 Pet. 4, as our Saviour told the woman
in the Gospel, that washed his feet, many sins were forgiven her, for she
loved much, Luke vii. 47; it will defend the fatherless and the widow,
Isa. i. 17; will seek no revenge, or be mindful of wrong, Levit. xix. 18;
will bring home his brother's ox if he go astray, as it is commanded,
Deut. xxii. 1; will resist evil, give to him that asketh, and not turn
from him that borroweth, bless them that curse him, love his enemy, Matt.
v; bear his brother's burthen, Gal. vi. 7. He that so loves will be
hospitable, and distribute to the necessities of the saints; he will, if it
be possible, have peace with all men, feed his enemy if he be hungry, if
he be athirst give him drink; he will perform those seven works of mercy,
he will make himself equal to them of the lower sort, rejoice with them
that rejoice, weep with them that weep, Rom. xii; he will speak truth to
his neighbour, be courteous and tender-hearted, forgiving others for
Christ's sake, as God forgave him, Eph. iv. 32; he will be like minded,
Phil. ii. 2. Of one judgment; be humble, meek, long-suffering, Colos.
iii. Forbear, forget and forgive, xii. 13. 23. and what he doth shall be
heartily done to God, and not to men. Be pitiful and courteous, 1 Pet.
iii. Seek peace and follow it. He will love his brother, not in word and
tongue, but in deed and truth, John iii. 18. and he that loves God, Christ
will love him that is begotten of him, John v. 1, &c. Thus should we
willingly do, if we had a true touch of this charity, of this divine love,
if we could perform this which we are enjoined, forget and forgive, and
compose ourselves to those Christian laws of love.
Quo coelum regitur regat!
Angelical souls, how blessed, how happy should we be, so loving, how might
we triumph over the devil, and have another heaven upon earth!
But this we cannot do; and which is the cause of all our woes, miseries,
discontent, melancholy, [4609]want of this charity. We do invicem
angariare, contemn, consult, vex, torture, molest, and hold one another's
noses to the grindstone hard, provoke, rail, scoff, calumniate, challenge,
hate, abuse (hard-hearted, implacable, malicious, peevish, inexorable as we
are), to satisfy our lust or private spleen, for [4610]toys, trifles, and
impertinent occasions, spend ourselves, goods, friends, fortunes, to be
revenged on our adversary, to ruin him and his. 'Tis all our study,
practice, and business how to plot mischief, mine, countermine, defend and
offend, ward ourselves, injure others, hurt all; as if we were born to do
mischief, and that with such eagerness and bitterness, with such rancour,
malice, rage, and fury, we prosecute our intended designs, that neither
affinity or consanguinity, love or fear of God or men can contain us: no
satisfaction, no composition will be accepted, no offices will serve, no
submission; though he shall upon his knees, as Sarpedon did to Glaucus in
Homer, acknowledging his error, yield himself with tears in his eyes, beg
his pardon, we will not relent, forgive, or forget, till we have confounded
him and his, made dice of his bones, as they say, see him rot in prison,
banish his friends, followers, et omne invisum genus, rooted him out and
all his posterity. Monsters of men as we are, dogs, wolves, [4611]tigers,
fiends, incarnate devils, we do not only contend, oppress, and tyrannise
ourselves, but as so many firebrands, we set on, and animate others: our
whole life is a perpetual combat, a conflict, a set battle, a snarling fit.
Eris dea is settled in our tents, [4612]Omnia de lite, opposing wit to
wit, wealth to wealth, strength to strength, fortunes to fortunes, friends
to friends, as at a sea-fight, we turn our broadsides, or two millstones
with continual attrition, we fire ourselves, or break another's backs, and
both are ruined and consumed in the end. Miserable wretches, to fat and
enrich ourselves, we care not how we get it, Quocunque modo rem; how many
thousands we undo, whom we oppress, by whose ruin and downfall we arise,
whom we injure, fatherless children, widows, common societies, to satisfy
our own private lust. Though we have myriads, abundance of wealth and
treasure, (pitiless, merciless, remorseless, and uncharitable in the
highest degree), and our poor brother in need, sickness, in great
extremity, and now ready to be starved for want of food, we had rather, as
the fox told the ape, his tail should sweep the ground still, than cover
his buttocks; rather spend it idly, consume it with dogs, hawks, hounds,
unnecessary buildings, in riotous apparel, ingurgitate, or let it be lost,
than he should have part of it; [4613]rather take from him that little
which he hath, than relieve him.
Like the dog in the manger, we neither use it ourselves, let others make
use of or enjoy it; part with nothing while we live: for want of disposing
our household, and setting things in order, set all the world together by
the ears after our death. Poor Lazarus lies howling at his gates for a few
crumbs, he only seeks chippings, offals; let him roar and howl, famish, and
eat his own flesh, he respects him not. A poor decayed kinsman of his sets
upon him by the way in all his jollity, and runs begging bareheaded by him,
conjuring by those former bonds of friendship, alliance, consanguinity,
&c., uncle, cousin, brother, father,
———Per ego has lachrymas, dextramque tuam te,
Si quidquam de te merui, fuit aut tibi quidquam
Show some pity for Christ's sake, pity a sick man, an old man, &c., he
cares not, ride on: pretend sickness, inevitable loss of limbs, goods,
plead suretyship, or shipwreck, fires, common calamities, show thy wants
and imperfections,
Et si per sanctum juratus dicat Osyrim,
Credite, non ludo, crudeles tollite claudum.
Swear, protest, take God and all his angels to witness, quaere
peregrinum, thou art a counterfeit crank, a cheater, he is not touched
with it, pauper ubique jacet, ride on, he takes no notice of it. Put up
a supplication to him in the name of a thousand orphans, a hospital, a
spittle, a prison, as he goes by, they cry out to him for aid, ride on,
surdo narras, he cares not, let them eat stones, devour themselves with
vermin, rot in their own dung, he cares not. Show him a decayed haven, a
bridge, a school, a fortification, etc., or some public work, ride on; good
your worship, your honour, for God's sake, your country's sake, ride on.
But show him a roll wherein his name shall be registered in golden letters,
and commended to all posterity, his arms set up, with his devices to be
seen, then peradventure he will stay and contribute; or if thou canst
thunder upon him, as Papists do, with satisfactory and meritorious works,
or persuade him by this means he shall save his soul out of hell, and free
it from purgatory (if he be of any religion), then in all likelihood he
will listen and stay; or that he have no children, no near kinsman, heir,
he cares for, at least, or cannot well tell otherwise how or where to
bestow his possessions (for carry them with him he cannot), it may be then
he will build some school or hospital in his life, or be induced to give
liberally to pious uses after his death. For I dare boldly say, vainglory,
that opinion of merit, and this enforced necessity, when they know not
otherwise how to leave, or what better to do with them, is the main cause
of most of our good works. I will not urge this to derogate from any man's
charitable devotion, or bounty in this kind, to censure any good work; no
doubt there be many sanctified, heroical, and worthy-minded men, that in
true zeal, and for virtue's sake (divine spirits), that out of
commiseration and pity extend their liberality, and as much as in them lies
do good to all men, clothe the naked, feed the hungry, comfort the sick and
needy, relieve all, forget and forgive injuries, as true charity requires;
yet most part there is simulatum quid, a deal of hypocrisy in this kind,
much default and defect. [4614]Cosmo de Medici, that rich citizen of
Florence, ingeniously confessed to a near friend of his, that would know of
him why he built so many public and magnificent palaces, and bestowed so
liberally on scholars, not that he loved learning more than others, but to
[4615]eternise his own name, to be immortal by the benefit of scholars;
for when his friends were dead, walls decayed, and all inscriptions gone,
books would remain to the world's end. The lantern in [4616]Athens was
built by Zenocles, the theatre by Pericles, the famous port Pyraeum by
Musicles, Pallas Palladium by Phidias, the Pantheon by Callicratidas; but
these brave monuments are decayed all, and ruined long since, their
builders' names alone flourish by meditation of writers. And as [4617]he
said of that Marian oak, now cut down and dead, nullius Agricolae manu
vulta stirps tam diuturna, quam quae poetae, versu seminari potest, no plant
can grow so long as that which is ingenio sata, set and manured by those
ever-living wits. [4618]Allon Backuth, that weeping oak, under which
Deborah, Rebecca's nurse, died, and was buried, may not survive the memory
of such everlasting monuments. Vainglory and emulation (as to most men)
was the cause efficient, and to be a trumpeter of his own fame, Cosmo's
sole intent so to do good, that all the world might take notice of it. Such
for the most part is the charity of our times, such our benefactors,
Mecaenates and patrons. Show me amongst so many myriads, a truly devout, a
right, honest, upright, meek, humble, a patient, innocuous, innocent, a
merciful, a loving, a charitable man! [4619]Probus quis nobiscum vivit?
Show me a Caleb or a Joshua! Dic mihi Musa virum—show a virtuous woman,
a constant wife, a good neighbour, a trusty servant, an obedient child, a
true friend, &c. Crows in Africa are not so scant. He that shall examine
this [4620]iron age wherein we live, where love is cold, et jam terras
Astrea reliquit, justice fled with her assistants, virtue expelled,
Incorrupta fides, nudaque veritas,———
all goodness gone, where vice abounds, the devil is loose, and see one man
vilify and insult over his brother, as if he were an innocent, or a block,
oppress, tyrannise, prey upon, torture him, vex, gall, torment and crucify
him, starve him, where is charity? He that shall see men [4622]swear and
forswear, lie and bear false witness, to advantage themselves, prejudice
others, hazard goods, lives, fortunes, credit, all, to be revenged on their
enemies, men so unspeakable in their lusts, unnatural in malice, such
bloody designments, Italian blaspheming, Spanish renouncing, &c., may well
ask where is charity? He that shall observe so many lawsuits, such endless
contentions, such plotting, undermining, so much money spent with such
eagerness and fury, every man for himself, his own ends, the devil for all:
so many distressed souls, such lamentable complaints, so many factions,
conspiracies, seditions, oppressions, abuses, injuries, such grudging,
repining, discontent, so much emulation, envy, so many brawls, quarrels,
monomachies, &c., may well require what is become of charity? when we see
and read of such cruel wars, tumults, uproars, bloody battles, so many
[4623]men slain, so many cities ruinated, &c. (for what else is the
subject of all our stones almost, but bills, bows, and guns!) so many
murders and massacres, &c., where is charity? Or see men wholly devote to
God, churchmen, professed divines, holy men, [4624]to make the trumpet of
the gospel the trumpet of war, a company of hell-born Jesuits, and
fiery-spirited friars, facem praeferre to all seditions: as so many
firebrands set all the world by the ears (I say nothing of their
contentious and railing books, whole ages spent in writing one against
another, and that with such virulency and bitterness, Bionaeis sermonibus
et sale nigro), and by their bloody inquisitions, that in thirty years,
Bale saith, consumed 39 princes, 148 earls, 235 barons, 14,755 commons;
worse than those ten persecutions, may justly doubt where is charity?
Obsecro vos quales hi demum Christiani! Are these Christians? I beseech
you tell me: he that shall observe and see these things, may say to them as
Cato to Caesar, credo quae de inferis dicuntur falsa existimas, sure I
think thou art of opinion there is neither heaven nor hell. Let them
pretend religion, zeal, make what shows they will, give alms, peace-makers,
frequent sermons, if we may guess at the tree by the fruit, they are no
better than hypocrites, epicures, atheists, with the [4625]fool in their
hearts they say there is no God. 'Tis no marvel then if being so
uncharitable, hard-hearted as we are, we have so frequent and so many
discontents, such melancholy fits, so many bitter pangs, mutual discords,
all in a combustion, often complaints, so common grievances, general
mischiefs, si tantae in terris tragoediae, quibus labefactatur et misere
laceratur humanum genus, so many pestilences, wars, uproars, losses,
deluges, fires, inundations, God's vengeance and all the plagues of Egypt,
come upon us, since we are so currish one towards another, so respectless
of God, and our neighbours, and by our crying sins pull these miseries upon
our own heads. Nay more, 'tis justly to be feared, which [4626]Josephus
once said of his countrymen Jews, if the Romans had not come when they did
to sack their city, surely it had been swallowed up with some earthquake,
deluge, or fired from heaven as Sodom and Gomorrah: their desperate malice,
wickedness and peevishness was such. 'Tis to be suspected, if we continue
these wretched ways, we may look for the like heavy visitations to come
upon us. If we had any sense or feeling of these things, surely we should
not go on as we do, in such irregular courses, practise all manner of
impieties; our whole carriage would not be so averse from God. If a man
would but consider, when he is in the midst and full career of such
prodigious and uncharitable actions, how displeasing they are in God's
sight, how noxious to himself, as Solomon told Joab, 1 Kings, ii. The Lord
shall bring this blood upon their heads. Prov. i. 27, sudden desolation
and destruction shall come like a whirlwind upon them: affliction, anguish,
the reward of his hand shall be given him, Isa. iii. 11, &c., they shall
fall into the pit they have digged for others, and when they are scraping,
tyrannising, getting, wallowing in their wealth, this night, O fool, I
will take away thy soul, what a severe account they must make; and how
[4627]gracious on the other side a charitable man is in God's eyes,
haurit sibi gratiam. Matt. v. 7, Blessed are the merciful, for they
shall obtain mercy: he that lendeth to the poor, gives to God, and how it
shall be restored to them again; how by their patience and long-suffering
they shall heap coals on their enemies' heads, Rom. xii. and he that
followeth after righteousness and mercy, shall find righteousness and
glory; surely they would check their desires, curb in their unnatural,
inordinate affections, agree amongst themselves, abstain from doing evil,
amend their lives, and learn to do well. Behold how comely and good a
thing it is for brethren to live together in [4628]union: it is like the
precious ointment, &c. How odious to contend one with the other! [4629]
Miseriquid luctatiunculis hisce volumus? ecce mors supra caput est, et
supremum illud tribunal, ubi et dicta et facta nostra examinanda sunt:
Sapiamus! Why do we contend and vex one another? behold death is over our
heads, and we must shortly give an account of all our uncharitable words
and actions: think upon it: and be wise. |